I want photos of my va-jay-jay said no woman ever. Birth myths debunked | Salem, Oregon photographer

May 03, 2016  •  6 Comments

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I fell in love with my children when I found out I was pregnant with them. As my body changed, as I felt them move- every hiccup, kick, roll, it only became a deeper love. I cherished carrying them and was in awe of my body and how it adapted, housed, and took care of each of them. When it came time to give birth, each of their births were uniquely different. My daughter's birth was unusually fast for a first time mom and my OBGYN barely made it into the hospital room to catch her. My son was stubborn and we joked that he was holding onto my spine and refusing to let go. Twenty four hours of labor and twelve hours of good solid labor induced by pitocin and he finally exited the comforts of my body.

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I was a modest woman. I didn't allow anyone into my birthing room with my daughter except for her father & my older sister. I dawned two gowns- one in the front and one in the back. Fifteen years has gone by since I birthed my oldest & not having photos is one of my biggest regrets. Birth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth is a sacred and intimate time. Myths about photographing your baby's birth debunked. Find out why you should capture these beautiful memories. Birth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth is a sacred and intimate time. Myths about photographing your baby's birth debunked. Find out why you should capture these beautiful memories.

As a birth photographer I hear a lot of reasons as to why women or people in general wouldn't consider a birth photographer. I want to mythbust some of these.

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Despite what most think- birth photography isn't about your lady bits. It's about the emotions and feelings surrounding the day of your child(ren)'s birth. The actual birth of your child(ren) is a very minor part in a larger overall picture. Most birth photographers are skilled and able to capture angles of the actual birth without showing any genitalia. Birth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth is a sacred and intimate time. Myths about photographing your baby's birth debunked. Find out why you should capture these beautiful memories. Having a photographer there will be disrupting & annoying

Birth is definitely something private and sacred. It's one of the most intimate times a woman will experience. That said, a birth photographer's job is to capture moments and memories without being intrusive or invasive. Our goal is to be a presence that is known but not interfering or changing your story. I have photographed several births and none of the mommas remembered me even being there towards the end of labor.
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You don't need to be "crunchy or hippy" to love your child, to show emotion or pain during your labor, to have your significant other hold your hand... Photos are for anyone and everyone. They document the story you are experiencing. We all have a story and how great to be able to show and tell that story with your child years down the road. Birth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth photographs woman in hospital, family in Salem, OregonBirth is a sacred and intimate time. Myths about photographing your baby's birth debunked. Find out why you should capture these beautiful memories. A birth photographer is expensive

It is true that birth photography can be costly depending on your budget, however, most birth photographers will offer payment plans. You are pregnant for 10 months (40 weeks for most- some shorter and some longer) this is a great opportunity to save or put down monthly payments for your birth photography. Birth photography involves a lot on the photographer's end- consults, check ins, hospital tour, meeting with your obgyn, on call time, the birth however long that may take, and then editing. The value of these portraits are priceless.

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Your significant other may be able to take a few portraits here and there, but unless they are a professional photographer there's no telling whether you will be in focus, the exposure will be correct, etc. It is also true that your significant other's main purpose for being in the room with you is to support you and share this beautiful moment with you. They may not have much time to photograph important moments that are shared, not to mention the moments that are shared between you both- the looks or hand holding or kisses on the cheek, etc.

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Mellissa is a Salem, Oregon birth photographer who serves not just Salem but McMinnville, Corvallis, Lincoln City, and Newberg. Contact her today for a complimentary consultation.
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Comments

6.Laura(non-registered)
Lovely photos capturing some really special moments.
5.Rachel V(non-registered)
I had photographers at both of my children's births. (they are 2 and 5 months now) and these are some of my favorite most treasured photos. Because you are so in the moment you Miss things. To be able to look back and see my husbands face as he saw our daughter for the first time. Or the look on my face after they handed me my son who arrived in a very big hurry (I was walking around and my water broke, he was born a minute later). These will always mean so much to me.
4.Crystal(non-registered)
I always wondered how any woman would want another person in the delivery room looking at their lady bits but since birth photography has gotten more popular, I can see why people would want it now. birth photographers are more of a fly on the wall that no one notices. my husband took some photos of our kids' births and they were not great. hiring a good birth photographer tells more of a story. if i could go back in time, i would have made the investment. these are gorgeous photos.
3.Ashlee(non-registered)
I love the emotion in these photographs. great article on why its important to have a birth photographer.
2.Katie(non-registered)
This is beautiful. I think everyone should hire a birth photographer if they are able. It happens so quickly, and the memories you capture are so so important. Thank you for this great information!
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